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Saturday, September 7, 2024

I married a brilliant man, no common sense, but brilliant.

 



My husband John is a brilliant man, one of those rocket-scientist types.  We talk about asteroids and volcanoes.  He will watch a DVD on math and calculus for fun.

But, God love him, he has that selective memory many smart men have.  They know about physics and the elements table, but cannot remember where they left the car keys or how to set the sprinkler system.  

I had to go out, and during that time, John had to call an electrician. The man found the source of the problem, which was in my writing room.  To allow access to the outlets, John cleared away all sorts of folders, binders, and assorted works-in-process.

Consequently, I had been searching for stuff for days.  Most important among those items was the Christmas cantata music our choir was practicing.  

 Man.  I tore apart every possible spot, every logical location that he might have placed my music tote bag. 

Huzzah.  That which was lost has been found.  John put the tote bag in with all the other re-usable totes we keep, in a dark corner in the kitchen

His response when I found it?  “Really?!  In that corner?  That’s really funny!”

Funny?  Not funny.  However, John lives to teach another day. A + B, all the way. As a D + C person, I will try to choose something from my traits that can handle the A+B.

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25 comments:

  1. How about A plus Visual and Detailed.

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  2. Of course it would be with the other tote bags! Where else? Going by that chart I'm a solid B with a tiny sprinkle of D (imaginative) and E (emotional)

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  3. i might be D or none of the above, and I think you might be D also

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    1. I think I have elements of all of them. But D and C are for me.

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  4. Although I'm sensible and love to plan, I'm so much more a right brained person. I can't do math worth a hoot! This was fun to read, Susan. Blessings!

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    1. I am one who switches depending on the requirements.

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  5. He's not very smart if he doesn't think about how you might need to find your stuff later. Interpersonal skills are important, too.

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    1. this happened about 15-20 years ago. He is much better now, though it has been a difficult time for him.

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  6. Your husband sounds like mine. Mine is A & B - he is always saying how intellectual he is (lol) and he is and he thinks totally different than I do. I am a C & D. Very interesting.

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  7. I am B all the way!
    That was a logical place to put the tote bag but he shouldn't realized something was in it.

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    1. Well, you have to understand my husband is random at storing things. Once I found the deed to our house in a tote with bills and such. Sigh.

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  8. This is great, Susan. Funny and interesting, too. I believe I'm a B/C combo.

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    1. Yes, I bet it is. Your post was great, and I enjoyed learning.

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  10. I am C & D all the way. My mother used to say I am a flibbertigibbet. Whimsical is a good word to toss in the mix.

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    1. Whimsical will be my word of the week. I will try to fit it in to talking with my daughter, Erin (49). She is a published author, and will enjoy it.

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  11. Definitely D and C for me. Fun post Susan! My hubby has taught me to think outside the box and I enjoy our conversations. I, however, have taught him how to cook since retirement. He will never starve, lol!

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    1. I laugh. If John didn't cook, then our meals would be haphazard. I cook, yes. But the job needs two people at this stage of our lives.

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  12. If it's not an empty tote bag, where's the logic in putting it with the empty tote bags?

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  13. Mostly D with a big helping of Detailed (which starts with D). Having gone to a high school full of science and math types (a specialized high school in New York City, which I applied to because I dreaded going to my local high school) I can speak for that "selective memory/absent minded professor" personality. I'm the one who loses things. My husband is the one who find them. Especially if they are where I could have easily seen them.

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    1. Also, I always forget to sign my name. Alana ramblinwitham.blogspot.com

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