If
you are from the South, or live near the South, or emigrated from the
South, or wish you lived in the South, then this word will have you
nodding,"Yes. Yes, of course."
This is the way I like grits.
I
did not enter the delicious world of grits until I was an adult. My
parents knew all about grits, had been eating them for years, but
somehow they never put them on the table. It
was shortly after having an abscess in the lower back molar with a
major bad root canal, that I discovered grits. After such a massively painful event, the only foods I could eat had the texture of baby food. Mashed potatoes were acceptable. That
was when my mother fixed me some grits. She put a sizable glop of real
butter on it, poured a bit cream, and a swirl of maple syrup. Grits, glorious grits!
**Some Southerners may prefer their grits with bacon and eggs, but I like the sweet better. This is from Bite and Booze, Jay D. Ducote. For
any readers who have experienced similar dental experiences, I offer my
sympathy. If I were at your house, I would mix up some grits for us
both. Grits
can be purchased at any reputable grocery store, next to the oatmeal.
I was pregnant with our firstborn when Jaws was released, 1975. We were at a drive-in close to the Pacific Ocean when a dense fog rolled in. It settled close to the ground, but up to our windows. The Jaws theme song took on new meaning.
My brothers and I went fishing in the creeks near our farm. I wasn't all that successful, but the memories are good. That is, if you don't count mosquitoes.
Never ever had the joy these children experienced in their fishing. To be the parents of these sweet babies and to watch them make their catch? That would be awesome.
Getting a summer job between school years was life blood of the next school year: No job, no money, no school.
One
job I held for two summers in a row was working as an intern for
Farmers Home Administration. The first day was a normal, meet and greet
thing, until the assistant administrator came from his office. The man
filled up the door frame, hair just brushing the head jam, shoulders brushing the side frames.
Bob Robertson is a big man in his leadership and sense of community, retired pro-football player, a hometown farm boy, and he is a giant. Bob sent this article to others like me, and I am posting it here:
For
fans who follow the sport, most of this will be a simple reminder of
things you already know. For the rest, it's a wake-up call:
In 2012
the NFL had an issue with Tim Tebow kneeling before each game to pray,
they also had an issue with Tebow wearing John 3:16 as part of his
eye-black to avoid glare, and made him take it off.
In 2013 the NFL fined Brandon Marshall for wearing green cleats to raise awareness for people with mental health disorders.
In 2014
Robert Griffin III (RG3) entered a post-game press conference wearing a
shirt that said "Know Jesus Know Peace" but was forced to turn it
inside out by an NFL uniform inspector before speaking at the podium.
In 2015 DeAngelo Williams was fined for wearing "Find the Cure "eye black for breast cancer awareness.
In 2015
William Gay was fined for wearing purple cleats to raise awareness for
domestic violence. (Not that the NFL has a domestic violence problem..).
In 2016
the NFL prevented the Dallas Cowboys from wearing a decal on their
helmet in honor of 5 Dallas Police officers killed in the line of duty.
In 2016 the NFL threatened to fine players who wanted to wear cleats to commemorate the 15th anniversary of 9/11.
So
tell me again how the NFL supports free speech and expression. It seems
quite clear based on these facts that the NFL has taken a position
against any action by NFL players demonstrating RESPECT for any issue:
God,
social causes such as mental health, cancer, domestic violence, for
cops killed arbitrarily, for being cops, or for the Memory of 9/11...
BUT
they will allow demonstrations of DISRESPECT for our National Flag, our
National Anthem, for America, and for the American People, if it will
help mollify a particular Group and its supporters.
That is who and what the NFL now has shown itself to be.
It
takes big men who stand up for their country, and bow in prayer to God.
Bob Robertson is one of those big men with a big heart for his beliefs.
When I think about NFL, I think about the best commercials ever. I love Peyton Manning. There are some players who hold themselves to a higher standard. The teams and players from the post above are those people.