| Mom's senior high school photo |
My mother never told these detailed stories, ever. Instead, she talked with us as we worked with her. We would be washing dishes and she would have us laughing at some event from her youth. A small event, like going to dances at her high school when she was sixteen, would have my sister and me in stitches.
| Mom in High School |
Mom was vivacious. Mom loved people and they remembered her for her kindness and enthusiasm. Mom was born in 1928, part of the Greatest Generation. Mom grew up on a farm. Mom was a cheerleader and played the flute in HS. Mom did...
| Baby brother Donald with Mom and Dad, 1947 |
How do I weave those brief memories into a picture of who my mother was and how did those parts make her who she was?
As writers, what do you do with characters about whom you have to build around, to construct with pieces of understanding? How honest do you have to be when this is a telling of someone like my mom? And keep the story true and solid?
How do I keep my voice accurate in trying portraying their voice? Her voice. Do I try to create a new persona for Mom?
Also, what do I do to be true to the character when their persona has flaws? In my Aunt Helen, her voice includes profanity. In real life, Aunt Helen did not do this. However, she held onto the anger of her growing-up years for her entire life. Her photos show that. So, I endowed her with inward profane dialogue.
If I had that anger, what would I do to release it? What would you do with this way to express the character's anger?
So there you have it. And here I ask you: What do I do? What can I do? What would you do?

