Teachers
see it every single day and have to deal with it all the time: the conflict between children.
This
seems to always happen out on the playground, away from the teacher’s line of
vision. As the children line up to go
into the classroom, angry red faces of the two students who boil in their rage
stand at the end.
The
teacher pulls the two aside, send the class to their desks, with directions to
read from the designated text book. Then
she faces the two combatants.
Who
started it? What did you do? Who said what? The two children each point a finger at the
other, claiming that “he’s the one—he did it!”
Then
there is the evidence gathering. Which
students in the class witnessed the event?
One by one those witnesses are questioned outside, while the
finger-pointers steam at their desks, out of ear shot.
Debates,
questions, answers ensue. Decision
made. Teacher directs the two less-angry
students outside to deliver the verdict.
Sometimes
both are guilty. If the students are girls, this is highly probable.
Sometimes one is the guilty party and the other the victim. These are usually boys.
Sometimes one is the guilty party and the other the victim. These are usually boys.
One will shout the loudest and deny the most. He will also accuse the other of the very things of which he himself has been accused. I look at that person suspiciously from the get-go.
Chances are this is not his first time facing judgment.
I sigh. Being the judge and delivering the verdict is a great responsibility.
Chances are this is not his first time facing judgment.
I sigh. Being the judge and delivering the verdict is a great responsibility.

