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| Looking for the silver coin |
But no one tells about the money all that costs. Dresses straight from Irish designers can cost up to $3000. Children have a habit of outgrowing these dresses.
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| $1000 worth of Swarovski crystals on an already expensive dress |
After a huge Irish Feis (fesh) dance competition held in a hotel near Disneyland, my daughter discovered that Clara, my gr-daughter had only one shoe. They searched all over the hotel with staff help, to no success.
This is how a competition looks
Obviously, Lost and Found was the place to go. No luck. But then the hotel maid recalled one shoe and turned it in the next day after the Feis.
That correct lost and found box contained the shoe. Huzzahs all around!
| The lone lost shoe |
What was lost was found. Was the search worth it? One shoe, was it important enough to find?
No one warns us about the cost. But everything costs money, what matters is where it is spent. A new sofa and love seat or a life time of dance memories and skills? Just where do you invest your time, money, self?
The dresses are crazy out-of-line, no matter what.



I had no idea those dresses ran that much but when you look at the work involved I guess it makes sense. As parents I think we always want our children to be able to experience as much of the wonderful things in life as possible. So we sacrifice in order to do this. And yes it is worth it even if it's just one shoe.
ReplyDeleteWe believe that, too.
DeleteSome dancers send measurements with a photo of the desired dress to China or Mexico. The cost is less. Quality? Don't know.
So lucky you found that other shoe. It seems that those specialized activities always cost and arm and a leg. Dance. Sports. Scouts. Music. But yeah, the memories those kids take into adulthood are priceless.
ReplyDeleteOne of fellow dancers went to World Championships, didn't qualify, but oh! the experience. Once dancers hit 18, they stop. But the shoes and dresses are in their closets and they still practice.
DeleteMercy, but lessons for kids cost! Some a lot more than others. My children were only allowed to do a couple of activities that we could afford, and it did not stunt them that they couldn't do "everything." They got music, Bible club, and some sports, and it was enough.
ReplyDeleteThings switch, activities become different. I had students who were maxed out, almost every night. Parents wanted me to stop assigning homework.
DeleteI had no idea a dress for Irish dancing could cost $3,000 and like you said, kids grow out of them. How great you persisted and found the lost shoe.
ReplyDeleteIt was a joy, to find that shoe. took a photo and sent it onto my daughter.
DeleteIt was incredibly lucky that you found that shoe. Growing up money was tight. We didn't do anything which cost more than a pittance. We did have varied experiences and encouragment so certainly weren't losers.
ReplyDeleteBecause our family is 75% Irish, there is a true connection. It was inevitable.
DeleteI am so out of touch. Cost of today's childen's competition is amazing. BUT, but I do love that type of dancing, good exercise that is for danged sure. It all amazes me, especially how the judges determine the best....
ReplyDeleteIt is a crazy amount of practice. Even outside multi hours of classes, dancers give hours at home. Their calf muscles are amazing.
DeleteWe have little Irish dancers here in Edmonton too, usually seen out and about dancing on and around St Patrick's Day. Their dresses usually are quite low-key, green or white Celtic-y looking things. In all honesty, I have never ever seen an Irish dancer wear anything so garish as those photos you have posted. They may cost a lot of money but that doesn't necessarily equate to good taste.
ReplyDeleteI love the simple of old. apparently the theory that judges would notice the garish over the skill. And the wigs!
DeleteSeems to me Irish Dancing might be only for the rich. I wonder what the original dancer, all those centuries ago, would think about that.
ReplyDeleteIt's pretty much the same as most sports though, everything costs, which is why I'm glad my kids weren't at all sports inclined. There was a brief period of jazz ballet when my daughters joined an after school group, run by the school and available to all who wanted to join in , so I did too and my younger son, for one year. It was just a few dollars a week and costumes weren't necessarily fancy. Whatever we could stitch up at home in the colours and fabric recommended was good enough for the end of year show.
After Riverdance, Irish dancing took off. The simple historical costumes were simple. But, after that, Irish dancing industries locked onto it.
DeleteGlad you finally found the shoe. But wow! Neither cheer leading nor playing football costs that much.
ReplyDeleteI know!
DeleteThank you for sharing this incredible Irish dance dear Susan as I was not familiar with such charming form of art
ReplyDeleteIn present world what matter most is "looking perfect to others or show off" and for this everyone seems Cray
Sometimes people cut off their basic needs and save to look best front of others
I wonder why the others are more important to us than our ourselves
Such money can be spent on better and more reasonable stuff
That is true. We still give to charities and needy.
DeleteThere were no Irish dance classes for my little lass but we lived in a predominately Polish neighborhood so she took Polish dance classes. I know what you mean about expensive. The headpieces alone cost $20 and that was 35 years ago.
ReplyDeleteCrazy, isn't it? But the photos we'll have document them thru the years.
DeleteGreat the shoe was found. Darn, that costs a lot indeed.
ReplyDeleteAnd that does not include the costs of going to a Feis in some distant city or the registration fees $$.
DeleteBut it is incredible to watch.
I enjoy watching Irish dancers, but I had no idea about the expense of such a pursuit. Now I'm glad my girls were interested in soccer as I don't think I invested as much as those dancers do.
ReplyDeleteArlee Bird
Tossing It Out
We didn't either. Oh well.
DeleteThat is surely an expensive endeavor. The dresses are pretty but the young dancers do grow fast and outgrow these dresses. The shoes are pretty spendy too. The person must be dedicated and serious about dancing to warrant this expense. Glad the missing show was found.
ReplyDeleteAnd the parents have to be part of the process. This and gymnastics other sports demand so much of parents. It is a big commitment and my girls love it.
DeleteIt's so good of you to continue searching. Your efforts were well rewarded.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you.
It gave new meaning to the woman searching for a silver coin. Her search was vital to her existence, while mine was to help my Clara, who leaves a trail behind her. And, of course, her mom.
DeleteWow that is a great deal of money to spend on a dress. I'm not sure I've ever seen any Irish dancers in the real, only on TV. Which is a bit weird as I live in the UK!
ReplyDeleteI don't know if Riverdance is traveling around in UK. If you get a chance to see a live performance somewhere, try to catch it.
DeleteThe cost for the dresses and shoes are crazy. And they definitely should tell you before you get involved in it. I do love watching them, though:)
ReplyDeleteIt is a little like getting pregnant. No one tells you about the 9th month, because it is hell.
DeleteThe dresses are out of control! Glad you found the shoe.
ReplyDeleteRejoicing all around!
DeleteMy daughter made the girls' earlier dresses but then it was time to buy. Clara's dress was used, cost about $500.
I fell in love with Riverdancing years ago and had I been a child I would have been hooked and cost my parents dearly. I'd have killed for that first dress.
ReplyDeleteLuckily I was into horses which isn't all that cheap.
Horses vs Irish dancing? Both $$$ but I'd go for horses, maybe.
DeleteA mesmerizing video. So glad the shoe was found.
ReplyDeleteI once lost my wedding ring while cleaning out drawers. Searched everywhere. A year later, I moved some papers over, and there it was, just sitting.
DeleteYou never know.
Different choices for all of us of course. A balance must be found.
ReplyDeleteVery true. Balance is the key.
DeleteI had no idea the dresses and shoes cost so much for that.
ReplyDeleteNo one knows, until one makes a commitment to watching their little angels skim across the floor like fairies.
DeleteAlways good to see your name!
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